Friday, November 26, 2010

忘記一個人

有些詞語我不會再用

每次要用到的時候我很小心

繞開它

换另一個

這樣就可以少想你一次

有些地方我不會再去

因為那里有太多你的足跡

不去了

就又可以丢掉一些回憶

我改變一種習慣

從前我一向愛吃甜食

因為你也喜歡

所以甜食也歸你了

我改吃辣了

有一天我無意中翻看相冊

發現那上面有你

于是我再也不上那個網站

就又可以多忘了你一點

有一天我無意中打開抽屜

偶然發現那条手鍊

就立即把它深鎖箱底

這樣就可以不再想起赠手鍊的那個你

有些明星

我喜歡你也喜歡

但我被你打敗了

他歸你了

我不再喜歡了

有些歌曲

是我喜歡也是你喜歡的

因為是你先喜歡的

即使再動人我也不會再去聽

更不會再去唱了

就把它讓給你吧!

這樣就不會在聽到這些歌曲時想到你了

當我見到那些共同認識你的朋友

也許會提起你也許不提起你

但我盡量繞開關於你的話題

這樣又可以避免想到你一次

某天有人問起我還會想你嗎?

我花了好久才把你的名字和形象聯繫起来

那時我已完全忘了你

也許忘記一個人最有效、最徹底的方式就是:

找一個人代替

就象你忘了我一樣

只是這樣太殘忍

我始終學不會.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

知足

兒時,小男孩家很窮,吃飯時,飯常常不夠吃,
母親就把自己碗裏的飯分給孩子吃。
母親說:“孩子們,快吃吧,我不餓!”
——這是母親撒的第一個謊言。

男孩成長的時候,
勤勞的母親常用周日休息時間,
去縣郊農村河溝裏撈些魚來給孩子們補鈣。
魚很好吃,魚湯也很鮮。孩子們吃魚的時候,
母親就在一旁啃魚骨頭,用舌頭舔魚骨頭上的肉漬。
男孩心疼,就把自己碗裏的魚夾到母親碗裏,請母親吃魚。
母親不吃,母親又用筷子把魚夾回男孩的碗裏。
母親說:“孩子,快吃吧,我不愛吃魚!”

——這是母親撒的第二個謊言。

上初中了,為了繳夠男孩和哥姐的學費,
當縫紉工的母親,就去居委會領些火柴盒拿回家來,
晚上糊了,賺點錢幫補家用。
有個冬天,男孩半夜醒來,看到母親還躬著身子在油燈下糊
火柴盒。
男孩說:“母親,睡了吧,明早您還要上班呢。”
母親笑笑,說:“孩子,快睡吧,我不睏!”
——這是母親撒的第三個謊言。

高考那年,
母親請了假,天天站在考點門口,為參加高考的男孩助陣。
時逢盛夏,烈日當頭,
固執的母親在烈日下一站就是幾個小時。
考試結束的鈴聲響了,
母親迎上去,遞過一杯用罐頭瓶泡好的濃茶,
叮囑孩子喝了,茶亦濃,情更濃。
望著母親乾裂的嘴唇和滿頭的汗珠,
男孩將手中的罐頭瓶反遞過去請母親喝。
母親說:“孩子,快喝吧,我不渴!”
——這是母親撒的第四個謊言。

父親病逝之後,母親又當爹又當娘,
靠著自己在縫紉社裏那點微薄收入,含辛茹苦拉扯著幾個孩子,
供他們念書,日子過得苦不堪言。
胡同路口電線杆下修表的李叔叔知道後,
大事小事就找岔過來打個幫手,
搬搬煤,挑挑水,送些錢糧來幫補男孩的家裏。
人非草木,孰能無情。
左鄰右舍對此看在眼裏,記在心裏,
都勸母親再嫁,何必苦了自己。
然而母親多年來卻守身如玉,始終不嫁,
別人再勸,母親也斷然不聽,
母親說:“我不愛!”
——這是母親撒的第五個謊言。

男孩和他的哥姐大學畢業參加工作後,
下了崗的母親就在附近農貿市場,擺了個小攤維持生活。
身在外地工作的孩子們知道後就常常寄錢回來補貼母親,
母親堅決不要,並將錢退了回去。
母親說:“我有錢!”
——這是母親撒的第六個謊言。

男孩留校任教兩年,後又考取了美國一所名牌大學的博士生
畢業後留在美國一家科研機構工作,待遇相當豐厚。
條件好了,身在異國的男孩想把母親接來享享清福,
卻被老人回絕了。
母親說:“我不習慣!”
——這是母親撒的第七個謊言。

晚年,母親患了胃癌,住進了醫院。
遠在大西洋彼岸的男孩乘飛機趕回來時,
手術後的母親已是奄奄一息了。
母親老了,望著被病魔折磨得死去活來的母親,
男孩悲痛欲絕,潸然淚下。
母親卻說:“孩子,別哭,我不疼。”
——這是母親撒的第八個謊言。

說完,在“謊言”裏度過了一生的母親終於閉上了眼睛。

在我們的生活中,謊言往往可以把人們拋入痛苦的深淵;然而有的時候,善意的謊言卻能催生出這個世界上最美麗的花朵。

父母愛子女之心無微不至,是無私無求的奉獻,
他/她所作的謊言,總是蘊含著世間最美的慈愛和最偉大的喜捨。

Thursday, July 15, 2010

来听一首属于我们的歌吧,

伤心的都忘记了,
只记得这首笑忘歌,
那一年天空很高风很清澈,
从头到脚趾都快乐,
我和你都约好了,
要再唱这首笑忘歌,
这一生只愿只要平凡快乐,
谁说这样不伟大呢?

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

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♫他心中有好多东西
♫多么想跟她讲
♫将来不知会不会见你
♫我始终还不能原谅自己
♫我为什么没阻止你离去
♫我真的好想你
♫I never told you
♫I wanna hold you
♫若能见你一面
♫我想说声抱歉
♫I never told you
♫I wanna hold you
♫宁愿放弃一切
♫让你留在我身边
♫If you and me were together
♫Together will be forever
♫I got to believe
♫That the sun will shine another day

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

一个人的脸上有太多的笑 ,是因为心里有太多的痛, 因为伤了 ,所以伪装

总有一些人,他们看上去整天都很开心,嘻嘻哈哈的,没有
烦 恼,像个小孩,他们会说玩是我最大的乐趣,我很喜欢玩, 我什么都会玩人多的时候他们脸上总挂着笑容,好多人都会 羡慕他们,然而这其实是他们最悲哀的地方,他们不想让别 人看到自己难过的一面,更没有能力一个人独处,因为当夜 深人静的时候,他不知道一个人会发生什么事,坐在窗前冥想走 过的点滴

没有人读的懂他们,想着想着貌似快乐的他们就会黯然流下一 脸的悲伤,然后自己对自己说:其实也没什么,命运吧!所 以他们就整天逼自己笑,以此来逃避那些常人所不能不承受的痛 苦!

他们貌似很坚强,因为在别人看来,他们什么事都能微笑着去 面对,但事实上他们长着世界上最脆弱的心灵,只是长期的 伪装使得别人很难发现他们内心深处的创伤。 他们其实非常孤独,虽然看到他们时都是在跟一群人谈天说地,那是因为他们实在不能承受一个人时的折磨!

他们只想简简单单、快快乐乐的活着,期待并且相信每个人给 的笑容都是真心的,希望身边的人都是真正的喜欢自己。即 使别人小小的意见,也会另他们难过好久,他们真的真的很 介意,介意自己不被人喜欢。因为,他们总是为别人想的很 多,对别人总是比对自己好;把能对喜欢的人好当做幸福,喜欢 别人比喜欢自己多。

他们总是那样,前一秒还伤心的流着泪,后一秒出现在朋友面 前的时候,已经满脸溢着灿烂的笑容。有人说他们是向日葵, 是的,他们在意的人就像是太阳,在面对太阳的时候永远 是明艳的花瓣,而太阳照不到的背面,那悲伤藏得那么好,不愿 被看见。


他们向往放纵自由的生活,却必须为了谁很努力的朝另外的一 个方向活着,很累很累,却仍是心甘情愿。离自己的梦境越 来越来远,不得不面对从未想过的争夺和复杂,恐慌、不知 所措。只有面对最信赖的人时,才会卸下盔甲,委屈的流下 眼泪。因为在他们心里,笑就是开心,哭就是难过,接近就 是喜欢,远离就是讨厌。但其实不是,他们明白了,心好伤, 眼泪就没忍住。哭过之后,笑笑得擦干眼泪,说,没关系,我可 以做的很好的。

他们好像无所不能,好像总是不会有烦恼,好像什么问题都能 轻而易举的解决,总是喜欢喜欢出现在流泪的人面前,笑嘻 嘻的逗着笑。而面对自己的问题,他们却茫然无措,面对自 己的悲伤,他们只会躲在人们看不见的角落里慢慢由伤口越裂越 大。

他们的想法非常简单,说出来的就是心里所想的,肚子里不会 拐七道八道的小弯,无心的话可能会引起别人的误解。所以, 请别记恨他们,他们从不愿伤害谁,小小的错误就能让他们懊悔 很久。

他们其实非常单纯,甚至你曾经给了他一个微笑他也会一辈子 记得你的好,因此他们的世界观其实也很简单,他们很容易 受蛊惑 ,请不要轻易的伤害他们的感情,因为一旦伤害了,那就将永 远弥补不回来! 如果你身边有这种人请你给予他(她)那怕是凤毛麟角的那点 关怀,让他(她)知道这个世界没有抛弃他们

Thursday, March 4, 2010

hope u can get well soon..








Hope u can get well soon.Prove to us u never give up to yourself.Giving all your wishes to Aaron Ramsey.

LU Ramsey,Malaysia

May the force be with you and I will give all my best wishes to you. I am looking forward to seeing you back to Emirates soon with a stronger, better spirit and body.
YM Liew, Puchong, Malaysia

Aaron I was really upset to see you get injured the other night but I know that you’re at the right club to receive the best possible treatment. So chin up son! Stay positive and all will be well.
Dave Bernath, Chertsey, Surrey

I am=m deeply disturbed by what happened to Ramsey which reminded me of the injury that Robert Pires picked up against Newcastle. I wish you a quick recovery
Abdirahman, Nairobi, Kenya

Aaron even though you are going through pain now, take courage. There is a brighter future for you.
Alvin Tamba, Monrovia, Liberia

Get well soon Aaron! We know you can come back and to be a key member of this team! And for the lads: Bring the Premier League trophy to Emirates for Ramsey! C'mon Ramsey!!
Lukacsi Alpar, Targu Mures, Romania

Larson and Eduardo are brilliant examples of how quickly you can return and how you can be back to your high standards beforr you know it. Best of luck although you do not need it. Best wishes.
Alex B, Cambridge

Hope you make a speedy recovery Aaron! You will soon be back in those boots!!
Katie, London

I was crying when I saw you on the floor. Please Aaron, get well soon. We all love you in Nigeria and all over the world... I which you a speedy recovery.
Ismail, Nigeria

We are all rooting for you Aaron. You have the best team behind you so hopefully you'll be back with us soon. Keep your spirits up x
Jill, Lisa and Brodie, Dagenham

Get better, feel better because the wishes and prayers of all Gooners are behind you. Good luck! I am sure you will come back better and stronger
Nannan, Detroit Michigan

In the name of God you are already well and all Arsenal fans say AMEN. I wish you a speedy recovery. I'll miss you on the field
Naya, Ghana

Wishing you all the best Aaron for a full and speedy recovery. All the best for the future.
Joshua Humphries, Crawley, West Sussex

Never stop believing in yourself and always keep up your fighting spirit on the way back, We all believe in you and you will come back stronger than ever!.Thoughts from Sweden
Richard Lantz, Sweden

I'm a chartered physio at Bristol City and we had a young lad with an injury almost identical to your own. His injury was in last week of September 2009. He will be back full time training within the month. All the best, keep your head up, you'll be back and stronger!
Lloyd Nicolson, Bristol

All my thoughts are with you for a speedy recovery and I'm looking forward to seeing you boss the midfield battles in future Premiership games for Arsenal for many years to come.
Ryan Jones, Milton Keynes

Get well soon Aaron hope you’re up and playing soon. Wales need you!
Owen James, Cardiff

You have youth on your side Aaron and a wonderful club and manager backing you and I am sure a family who will take care of your every need. There can be only one result - get well soon lad.
Susanne, St. Andrews, Scotland

From a Bradford fan hoping your recovery goes well. Such an exciting prospect and emerging talent. Looking forward to seeing you on the pitch again soon!
Mark, Sheffield

Dear Aaron, hope you get well soon, you are a star in the making and hopefully this will be just a small bump in your career. Hope this will make you feel better. Good luck and get well soon.
Bakry, Beirut, Lebanon

My pal did the same as you when he was 40 and he was back within a year.
Terry Martin, Romford

Aaron, my five year old son has been to see you play at Emirates when I can get a ticket. He has cried today having seen the game on TV. We both are so sorry to see the injury and pain you were in. Please rest and we both will pray for your recovery, you are a very brave man. We both hope to see you make a good recovery and our thoughts every time we watch Arsenal will be with you and your family.
David and Oliver Lane, Kent

Good luck Aaron. Great achievements and trophies await for Arsenal in the coming years - all of us fans want you to be part of that. Work hard, dig deep and we'll see you next season.
Graham Simons, Finsbury Park

Aaron, as a Belgian Arsenal fan I wish you all the best of luck in your recovery! Hope you'll get better soon. You're still very young so you still have a fantastic future ahead of you at the Emirates! Take care.
Thijs, Antwerp, Belgium

Get well soon Aaron we all know you will be out on the pitch very soon! xx
Clare, London

So sorry for your injury Aaron. Here's hoping you're back soon. To the rest of the lads: come on bring the title home for Aaron
David, Reading

I know that before not so long you will be back to football like Eduardo. I wish you good health and good luck. From a fan from little village in Poland.
Raphael, Poland

I am really sorry for you at the moment. But you should make your mind free and think positively. Believe me you can recover in a short period with the help of God. I WISH A QUICK RECOVERY FOR YOU.
Aschalo, Ethiopia

Wishing you a quick Recovery. Let's win the Premier League for Ramsey and Eduardo!
Matovu John Baptist, Kampala, Uganda

Ramsey, be strong in your mind and spirit. Be positive and you'll be back in a short time. Much love to you.
Alexander Chuks, Port-Harcourt, Nigeria

Aaron I am so devasted about your injury, I can't imagine how you're feeling - I think you are incredibly brave. Stay strong and positive - you have so many people who care about you. I hope the lads win the title for you. With love and best wishes x
Ali Bickle, Bude, Cornwall

I really feel sorry for Aaron and wish him a quick recovery. May God help him in the rehabilitation process.
Theogene, Rwanda

Get well soon and keep Eduardo as your inspiration xx
Jenny Nye, Slough

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

想回到过去

时间很快就过去..这两年以来我们大家都变了..我很想念你们..家人..朋友..还记得以前刚毕业傻傻的样子..谢谢你们教会了我很多很多..也认识到很多朋友..不知道两年前的我现在做着什么呢?应该傻傻的罢..
两年前的我
两年前的我们
两年前的二姐XD